I have noticed one thing which sadly is happening all around us.When we were courting each other holding hands itself was such a thrilling experience.Today you note very few married couples hold hands anymore let alone show each other the special look and bother to show any closeness.What happened? Does it mean that once you are married the romance has gone out of your lives?
The guy will walk in front or they will walk apart from each other.Before marriage there were the Valentine candlelight dinners,bouquets and special gifts for birthdays.After wedding?Has marriage changed a relationship so much that the little things which mean a lot dont matter anymore?Each party will have his/her own activity and its not often that things are done together as a couple.Where is the life of togetherness ? Of sharing ?
Worse of all is when we stop to communicate with each other.There were times when the first person you talk to whenever something happens was the spouse and the two would discuss and talk things over and in the process a lot more understanding comes about.Life is not just about the rat race ,the race for success and monetary gains.Its about living and sharing and spending quality time with the family and each other.That was the commitment we made to each other when we got married,to share the rest of our lives together.
We need to go back and relook at our priorities ,at how we treat each other and how we share precious moments together,bring back the romance to our lives and not just live together without sharing life.The other party must always be treasured and what better way to do it than to have little surprises now and then.A flower? a box of chocolates,a surprise candlelight dinner ? So many things can be done ,only thing is sometimes we forget.........
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